Sex Therapy BC

Trauma-Informed, Sex Therapy for Women & Gender-Diverse Folks in British Columbia

JULIE THOMASON

BFA MACP RCC-ACS

Hello, I'm Julie Thomason (she/her). I founded BC Therapy Co. because I believe everyone should have access to compassionate, trauma-informed care. As a Registered Clinical Counsellor and Approved Clinical Supervisor, I provide trauma-informed, women-centred care specializing in sex therapy, trauma, and women's health. I am welcoming new virtual clients and offer online support across British Columbia.

Who I work with

I specialize in supporting women, including those who are AFAB and gender-diverse identified individuals, who are seeking women-centred care. Whether you are navigating healing, exploring identity, or simply wanting to deepen your understanding of your own sexuality, you will find a safe, affirming space here.

In our work together, I offer a collaborative, evidence-based approach where your history, identity, and goals shape the path forward. My practice is rooted in the belief that sexual wellness is integral to overall wellbeing, and that healing and empowerment are possible at any stage of your journey.

Sex Therapy Issues

My practice is dedicated to supporting women and gender-diverse people with a wide range of issues such as; navigating the aftermath of sexual trauma or domestic abuse, exploring sexuality while living with ADHD, managing medication-induced sexual side effects, or moving through hormonal changes in perimenopause and menopause with confidence. I also work with individuals processing sexual shame, gender and identity questions. And I support those people who are exploring dating or consensual non-monogamy or those simply wanting to explore their sexuality more fully.

In our sessions, we will explore your history and clarify your goals, building practical, evidence-based tools that fit your unique needs. Whether you are seeking trauma-informed strategies for rebuilding intimacy, guidance on navigating medication and sexual health, or support for hormonal transitions, you can feel comfortable to explore whatever is on your mind.

What You Can Expect in Sex Therapy

A private and safe virtual setting
Evidence‑based techniques
Trauma‑informed care
A safe space for Women
Inclusive of LGBTQIA2S+
A non-judgmental therapist
Accessible and convenient support

Minimalist desk setup with a MacBook, a white coffee mug, and a beige vase with dried palm leaves, against a plain white background.

Sex Therapy: Areas of Focus

I help women and gender diverse people address common concerns such as the effects of shame and religious trauma, difficulty with intimacy after trauma, and feeling a lack of pleasure or sensual confidence. Together we can explore ways to enhance pleasure, reconnect with your body, and cultivate a richer erotic life.
I support women and gender-diverse folks navigating the physical and emotional shifts of perimenopause and menopause, which can profoundly impact libido, intimacy, and your sexuality. Through a trauma-informed and sex-positive lens, we explore how hormonal changes affect desire and arousal, helping you reclaim a sense of connection and pleasure during this transition. We work together to adapt your sexual expression and communication to align with your evolving needs. This supportive space allows you to address specific symptoms like dryness or pain without shame, fostering a renewed understanding of your body and sexuality. Ultimately, the goal is to empower you to maintain a fulfilling intimate life that honors your unique journey through this life stage.
I work with individuals who have ADHD to explore how their neurodivergent wiring influences sexuality and intimate relationships. Together we address emotional regulation, sensory needs, communication patterns, and impulsivity so you can feel more grounded and understood in the bedroom and beyond. My aim is to help you develop strategies to foster satisfying and healthy sexual connections.
I help individuals who are seeking love and navigating the early stages of dating to clarify what they truly want in a partner. Together we explore how to choose healthy, compatible matches and develop clear, confident communication of preferences and boundaries. My goal is to empower you to build authentic connections that feel safe, respectful, and fulfilling from the very beginning.
I walk alongside couples who want to deepen their connection and navigate the everyday ups and downs of married life. Whether you’re feeling unheard, struggling with intimacy, juggling parenting styles, dealing with financial pressures, or facing major life transitions such as career shifts or an empty nest, I’m here to listen without judgment. Together we explore the emotions behind the challenges, rebuild open and compassionate communication, and develop gentle, realistic strategies for resolving conflict. My aim is to help you and your partner rediscover the love, trust, and shared purpose that first brought you together, so your marriage can feel supportive, nurturing, and resilient for years to come.
Clear, respectful dialogue about needs, limits, and desires is foundational to any healthy relationship. I offer practical skills for negotiating consent and communicating and expressing your preferences, empowering you to show up fully in relationships.

I support women and gender-diverse folks navigating the spectrum of women's health, including hormonal cycles, mood changes, and motherhood experiences. I also work with clients who have experienced trauma, recognizing how it intersects with bodily autonomy, intimacy, and sexual expression. Beyond individual concerns, I acknowledge the impact of disability, class, and systemic barriers on accessing care. Together, we can create a sex-positive, trauma-informed approach that celebrates the diversity of women and gender diverse peoples experiences.
Identifying personal triggers and learning how to communicate them clearly are essential steps toward healthier relationships. I work with clients to define, assert, and maintain boundaries that protect emotional safety and promote mutual respect.
For survivors of abuse, whether it was sexual, domestic, narcissistic abuse, or religious trauma, I provide a safe space to process and integrate painful memories, support post‑traumatic growth, and rebuild trust and intimacy within yourself and your relationships.
Coming out, gender‑affirming transitions, and questioning one’s identity can be both exciting and challenging. I support clients through these journeys, helping them integrate intersecting aspects of identity, including age, race, class, ability, and religion, into a cohesive sense of self.
Whether you’re exploring consensual non‑monogamy, ethical non‑monogamy, polyamory, or kink dynamics, I help you clarify your values and choose partners who align with them. Together we build clear agreements, strengthen communication, and manage feelings such as jealousy, so conflicts can be resolved constructively.
Many people carry limiting narratives about sexuality that dampen desire and enjoyment. Together we can rewrite these scripts, nurture sensual embodied awareness, and build erotic confidence.

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Frequently Asked Questions about Sex Therapy

Sex therapy is talk therapy that welcomes conversations about sexuality, intimacy, and relationships. At BC Therapy Co., we create a safe, shame-free space where you can explore these topics without judgment. Julie Thomason, RCC-ACS, leads our sex therapy services, offering trauma-informed, sex-positive care for women and gender-diverse individuals across British Columbia. Whether you're navigating desire, trauma, identity, or simply want to understand yourself better, we're here to support you.

Sex therapy is a specialized form of talk therapy that helps you navigate concerns about sexuality, intimacy, and relationships. It is a safe, shame-free space to discuss topics like desire, trauma, identity, and boundaries without judgment. Julie Thomason, RCC-ACS, leads our sex therapy services, providing trauma-informed, sex-positive care for women and gender-diverse individuals across British Columbia.
Sex therapy works through confidential talk sessions where you can explore your experiences, questions, and concerns with a trained professional. We focus on understanding your unique needs, building coping strategies, and creating a path forward at your own pace. There are no physical exercises, just open, non-judgmental dialogue in a safe, supportive environment.
Sex therapy is a professional healthcare service, just like seeing a medical professional or a clinical counsellor, where we can have an open conversation about your sexual health and wellness issues and explore and discuss ideas and solutions together.
Absolutely! Sex therapy isn’t just about sex, it’s a safe, supportive space to explore anything that matters to you, whether it is relationships, self-esteem, trauma, or feelings or experiences you want to understand better including sex and sexuality.
Working with a sex therapist means you’re talking with someone who’s trained in sexuality and comfortable discussing sexuality in a shame-free and non-judgmental way.
Whatever is on your mind, whether it is sexual or not, it deserves space in the conversation.
Sex therapy is exclusively talk therapy, just like clinical counselling and does not include any form of physical touch or physical contact. It is just a safe space to talk about any issues, including your intimate life.
Sex therapy is a space where you can talk openly about anything related to your sexuality, including your thoughts, emotions, experiences, questions, or concerns. Whether you want to explore challenges or gain a deeper understanding of your desires, we will work together in an environment that is supportive, confidential, and free of shame. It is a safe space where you will be met with understanding and accurate, science-based information.

Understanding Sex Therapy

A: Absolutely! Sex therapy isn’t just about sex, it’s a safe, supportive space to explore anything that matters to you, whether it is relationships, self-esteem, trauma, or feelings or experiences you want to understand better including sex and sexuality.
Working with a sex therapist means you’re talking with someone who’s trained in sexuality and comfortable discussing sexuality in a shame-free and non-judgmental way.
Whatever is on your mind, whether it is sexual or not, it deserves space in the conversation.
A: You don't need a specific problem to benefit from sex therapy, as many clients come to explore, understand, and embrace their sexuality. Julie Thomason, RCC-ACS, provides trauma-informed, sex-positive care for women and gender-diverse individuals across British Columbia and can provide a safe space to explore your sexuality more fully.
A: Yes. Julie Thomason, RCC-ACS, provides trauma-informed, sex-positive trauma care for women and gender-diverse individuals across British Columbia. Our Associates at BC Therapy Co. also provide trauma-informed support for individuals and couples.
A: Yes. Low libido and desire discrepancies between partners are very common concerns we address in sex therapy. We use evidence-based techniques to help you work through these challenges.

Sex Therapy Issues

Sex therapy sessions with sex therapist Julie Thomason, RCC-ACS are $155 CAD for 60 minutes. Longer sessions such as 75-90 minutes are available and are priced at proportionally. Fees may vary slightly based on the specific therapist or service type. Please contact us to discuss your specific needs.
Most extended health benefit plans cover sex therapy provided by Registered Clinical Counsellors (RCC). Coverage amounts vary by provider, so we recommend checking your specific plan details before booking a session.

Sex Therapy Fees

Who is Sex Therapy for?

We offer online, trauma‑informed, sex‑positive, strength‑based, sex therapy, especially for people who identify as women, queer folks, and LGBTQIA2S+ individuals across British Columbia.
Sex therapy offers a safe, supportive space to explore your relationship with your desire, erotic expression, and intimacy. Sex therapy can include working on healing from shame or trauma, reconnecting with your body, or navigating your identity, whether you identify as queer or questioning. It can also be a space to explore your relationships, which could be vanilla, kinky, platonic, open or non-traditional relationships. You are welcome here.
Sex therapy may be right for you if you're experiencing concerns about desire, arousal, pain during sex, sexual trauma, or intimacy. It's also helpful if you're navigating identity questions, exploring your sexuality, or simply want to feel more confident and connected in your relationships.
Yes. At this time, sex therapy is only offered to individual women and gender diverse folks for individual or relationship issues. We can discuss your specific needs during a consultation and make a referral if necessary.
Absolutely. Our practice is sex-positive, trauma‑informed, confidentiality‑bound, and explicitly affirming of all gender identities, sexual orientations, and relationship structures and dynamics. You’ll be met with respect, non‑judgment, and a safe environment where you can explore your concerns safely and freely.
Yes. Our sex therapy approach is sex-positive and kink-aware. We create a non-judgmental space to explore all aspects of your sexuality, relationships, and dynamics.
You don’t need to bring a partner or even be in a relationship to discuss or explore your sexuality in therapy.
Many people come in on their own to explore topics like desire, intimacy, identity, shame, past experiences or simply to get to know themselves more deeply.
This is your space to bring up whatever is coming up for you and we will begin exactly where you are.

Learn more about Julie Thomason’s advanced education and training and how it guides our work together. Explore my education and training on the full bio page.

Education & Trainings